My Dad
I'm sure that most of you have heard by now that on September 27, 2010, my
Dad passed away from pancreatic cancer. The Memorial Service was on Friday and I think we did him proud. He wanted a joyful celebration of his life, and I do think we accomplished that. Several of his friends spoke and told funny stories about him and talked about all of the reasons why they loved him. There were about 275 people at the service which is a true testament to him and the kind of person he was. I think we were all a little overwhelmed by the turn out. But, surprised? Not a bit.
He was someone who loved his family so much. Not only are we family, but we are all good friends. I will miss him as a father, but I will also miss the advice and friendship that played such an important role in my life. He worked so hard over the last year to prepare so many things so that his death would be an uncomplicated as possible. He was always so worried about all of us. He loved my husband (and Marty's wife) like his own children and never hesitated to tell them that. He couldn't stand to see any of us hurting or in pain, and was the first one there when we needed support or advice. I only hope that one day I can have the same bonds with my adult children and their spouses.
There are a million things that I am so terribly sad about and will miss. But, I'm trying to focus on the wonderful blessings that we have and all of the memories that will stay with us forever. He fought this cancer with so much strength and dignity. I never heard him complain about anything, and certainly never saw him feeling sorry for himself. I only hope that I can follow his example, and mourn with as much strength and integrity as he had when fighting this awful disease. I pray that we will all find the peace and comfort in his memories.
My Dad and I-1980
Daddy's girl-1983 (ish?)
Granddad with Logan-2007
....oh how he loved this little boy....
Dad and I-October 2009
Posted in: on Thursday, September 30, 2010 at at 5:30 PM
I am so sorry Kami for you and your family's loss! I am so glad you guys where able to move back home to be closer to your family! I know that had to have meant a lot to your dad!
What a great Dad, Kami. You loved him so much and so well, too, just like he loved you. Those pictures are precious and demonstrate all of the words that you wrote about him. Praying for you everyday.
Kami, I'm sitting her crying while reading this. I think the part I miss most about your Dad right now is not being able to see him hug on my girls and hear his booming voice telling us something funny. He was a great man who always was so very good to those around him.
The service for him was amazing and I loved the stories. I found myself nodding my head so many times as his wonderful friends told the stories. I cried and I laughed! Please know I'm here for you, love you like a sister, and if you ever need anything - just ask. Your Daddy is always in my heart along with your whole extensive clan!
Also congratulations on the birth of your new baby boy! You know Mark is smiling down from Heaven with his love enveloping all of you!!
ML